What did Jesus mean when He told His disciples to take up their cross— was this about discipleship of salvation? Can Someone Be A Disciple Without Being Saved? Why would the promised King speak openly about rejection, death, and loss? And how did the disciples misunderstand what kind of Messiah Jesus truly is?

 

Is Jesus talking about how to be saved—or something else entirely? What does it really cost to follow Him, and why does Jesus address these words not just to the Twelve, but to everyone listening? As we walk through Matthew, Mark, and Luke, this episode raises uncomfortable but essential questions about self-denial, loyalty, public faith, and eternal reward. What happens when comfort competes with calling, and why does Jesus frame discipleship as a daily decision with eternal significance?

 

Passage: Matthew 16:21–28 | Mark 8:31–9:1 | Luke 9:22–27
Series: Jesus Said That
Episode: #73
Title: Take Up Your Cross: The Cost of Discipleship Not Salvation

 

– – Chapters – – –

0:00 – Introduction: Salvation Vs Discipleship

2:15 – Bible Reading And Pastor Kenny’s 6 Year Old’s Gift

5:07 – Context: Peter is Already Saved After Calling Jesus Messiah

6:35 – Can Someone Be A Disciple Without Being Saved?

13:35 – Matthew’s Firsthand Account of Jesus’ Words (Matthew 16:21–28)

29:31 – Peter’s Eye Witness Account In Mark (Mark 8:31–9:1)

34:50 – Luke’s Account of Jesus’ Words (Luke 9:22–27)

37:50 – Timeless Truth’s From Today’s Account(s)

38:20 – Practical Takeaways From Today’s Podcast

40:00 – Closing Thought On Text

41:00 – Christmas Card, Christmas Music, Wrapping Up The Year, and Merry Christmas!

Due to active snowfall and temperatures remaining below freezing, we have made the prayerful decision to cancel church today.

Both pastors personally checked road conditions this morning and confirmed that, beyond the snow, there is significant black ice present, making travel especially dangerous. Black ice is one of the leading causes of winter slips, falls, and vehicle accidents. This is a serious concern, especially for our elderly members, those who walk into town, and anyone commuting into Colmar Manor.

Our desire is never to cancel gathering together, but we do not want anyone to risk being injured unnecessarily. Caring for one another sometimes means choosing wisdom and compassion. The church is not a building, and missing one Sunday for safety is not a failure of faith.

Please help spread the word by contacting one another so everyone is informed. Stay warm, stay safe, and take time to worship and pray at home.
If you’d like to be encouraged today, here is the latest podcast from both pastors:
https://youtu.be/gp1yNOHFZis

In episode three the pastors explore whether forgiveness always means reconnecting with someone who keeps hurting you, and what the Bible really teaches about boundaries and reconciliation. Then they tackle a question from a curious young listener about whether Hell has different “levels,” and how that relates to different religions around the world. Next, they address an honest concern: Why does the Bible seem to value men more than women, and does Scripture actually teach that? Finally, they dig into a fascinating mystery from Genesis—why Adam and Eve didn’t seem surprised by a talking serpent.

Pastor Ken has asked what his favorite bands are the musicians while Pastor Kenny is asked to explain the writing process behind lyrics. These questions are honest, challenging, and real… and this episode brings clarity, depth, and encouragement as we walk through each one together.

– – Chapters – – –

0:00 – Introduction

1:39 – Question #1: “Can Forgiveness Happen Without Restoring the Relationship?”

10:04 – Question #2: “Are There Different Levels of Hell?”

18:56 – Question #3: “Why Do Men Seem More Valuable in Scripture than Women?”

31:56- Question #4: “Why Wasn’t Eve Surprised when the Snake Talked?”

37:41- Question to Pastor Ken: “What Musicians or Bands Do You Like And Why Do You Like Them?”

41:17- Question to Pastor Kenny “How Do You Decide what to Write a Song or Album About? What inspires you?”

– – Want Your Question To Appear On The Podcast? – – –

We’re thrilled to announce our new series, The Father and Son Pastoral Podcast: Answering Your Questions Over Coffee! Got a question about faith, life, or spirituality? We want to hear from YOU!

Here’s how to submit:

#1: E-mail Us:
pastoralpodcastquestions@gmail.com

Or send a message through Facebook messenger at: / colmarmanorbiblechurch

#2: Your Name:
Include your first name and location (e.g., “Sarah from Ohio”). Anonymous questions are welcome too!

#3: Your Question:
Type out your question in a paragraph or less so that the pastors thoroughly understand your question.

#4: Your Video:
Send a short video (30 seconds or less) with your question. Keep it under 50 MB. Videos are not required but have a better chance of being featured on the podcast.

Questions should be respectful and tied to our pastoral themes. By submitting, you give permission for your question to be featured on the podcast and our social media. Submissions are accepted on a rolling basis, but get yours in soon for a chance to be featured in our next episode! Can’t wait to share a cup of coffee and answer your questions. Let’s grow in faith together!

Can’t wait to share a cup of coffee and answer your questions. Let’s grow in faith together!

 

Have you ever faced a moment when everything seemed to go wrong? Interruptions, delays, and unanswered prayers test your patience and faith. Why does God seem to wait until the last moment—or even beyond?

 

What do a desperate father and a broken woman teach us about divine timing and faith under pressure? Are delays really setbacks—or are they setups for something greater? Stay with us as we uncover how God’s perfect timing brings hope and healing in the midst of chaos.

 

This episode is entitled: “God’s Timing Is Never Late: Jairus and the Woman Who Touched Jesus” which is taken from Matthew 9:18-26; Mark 5:22-43; Luke 8:40-56

Join us on Sunday (March 9th) as Pastor Kenny Jr preaches on spiritual warfare. 

In this episode, the pastors tackle a puzzling biblical question: How can Matthew, Mark, and Luke tell the same story of Jairus and Jesus so differently? How can these passages be harmonized to answer this apparent contradiction?

And what about the parable of the wineskins? Is it really about old versus new covenants, or is there a simpler meaning hidden in plain sight? Why does Jesus compare Himself to a bridegroom, and what does fasting have to do with joy, loss, and our spiritual journey today?

Also what would Jesus say about Lent? Join the pastors as they wrestle with the text.

 

This episode is entitled: “Dinner at Matthew’s, Fasting, Wineskins, and Jairus’ Plea” which is taken from Matthew 9:10-19, Mark 2:15-17; 5:21-24, and Luke 5:29-39; 8:40-42

 

– – – Chapters – – –

0:00 – Introduction: Overanalyzing A Parable & A Problem Passage

3:47 – Apparent Biblical Contradiction Resolved

12:34 – Peter’s Eyewitness Account: Mark 2:15-17; 5:21-24

22:22 – Parable Of The Cloth & Wineskins Explained

28:50 – Luke’s Historical Account: Luke 8:26-39

33:20 – What Would Jesus Say About Lent?

37:32 – Why The Wineskins Do Not Represent The Covenants

38:22 – How English Bible “Smooth Out” The Greek Language

40:47 – Matthew’s Eyewitness Account: Mark 2:15-17; 5:22-24

46:56 – Timeless Truths

48:17 – Practical Takeaways From Today’s Podcast

49:14 – Closing Thought On Text

49:53 – Personal Updates From The Pastors

 

– – – About The Pastors – – –
Dr. Ken Burge Sr. has been the Senior Pastor at Colmar Manor Bible Church for over 30 years. He has earned; BA, Washington Bible College; MA & MDiv, Capital Bible Seminary; DMin, Dallas Theological Seminary. He is the Author of the F.I.R.E. Bible Commentary Series. He also the founder of the Ken J Burge, senior foundation, which equips international pastors with preaching materials.

 

Pastor Kenny Burge Jr. is the youngest son of Dr. Ken Burge. He is the Associate Pastor at Colmar Manor Bible Church. He is in charge of the youth at the church and also manages all the media. He is the author and creator of Theology 4 everyday life 4 kids which is a free curriculum for children which work though the life of Jesus. All of these podcasts are based off of Bible studies that Pastor Kenny Jr has taught.

 

Podcast:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/colmar-manor-bible-church-maryland/id1475960054?i=1000596989079

 

Pastor Ken’s Books at Amazon:
https://www.amazon.com/stores/Ken-J.-Burge-Sr./author/B00CSSO5DK?ref=ap_rdr&store_ref=ap_rdr&isDramIntegrated=true&shoppingPortalEnabled=true

 

Pastor Ken’s Foundation:

https://www.kenjburgesrfoundation.com/

 

Pastor Kenny Jr’s Animated Bible Curriculum:

https://www.youtube.com/@UCjH7Y6n8M8g4FJ6acPYuxsA

 

Pastor Kenny Jr’s Animated Bible Curriculum Website:

www.theology4everydaylife4kids.com

 

Pastor Kenny’s Christmas Album
https://distrokid.com/hyperfollow/pastorkennysclassroom/dont-you-know-its-christmas-the-album

 

Pastor Kenny’s YouTube Channel:
https://www.youtube.com/@UCLrRLiuqCBoOk440vV6dnrA

In this Bible study based on Ephesians 6:5–9, Dr. Burge explores what it means to work for Jesus and await His reward. Whether you’re an employee dealing with workplace frustrations or a boss seeking to lead with fairness, God’s Word offers practical wisdom for transforming your perspective.

Hear a personal story of how applying biblical principles changed Dr. Burge’s work ethic—and discover how it can change yours too. Are you ready to work for the true Master?

 

– – About This Bible Study – – –
Today’s study is titled: Ephesians 6:5-9 – Serving Him Who Became A Servant For You from chapter 20 of Dr. Burge’s book, “Paul’s Letter to the Ephesians on F.I.R.E.: Apprehending and Applying God’s Timeless Truths”

This session marks the 20th of 21 Bible studies in the Ephesians on F.I.R.E. series.

 

– – – Sermon Chapters – – –

0:00 – Intro & Opening Illustration On The Lion Tamer

1:31 – Understanding Slavery In The Roman Empire

3:18 – Reading of the Text (Ephesians 6:5-9) & Prayer

4:40 – Ephesians 6:5 & Commentary

10:58 – Ephesians 6:6 & Commentary

13:27 – Ephesians 6:7 & Commentary

16:13 – Ephesians 6:8 & Commentary

16:46 – Point #1 (Ephesians 6:5-8)

18:02 – Point #2 (Ephesians 6:9)

16:13 – Ephesians 6:9 & Commentary

21:58 – What To Remember

29:32 – Closing Prayer and Outro

 

– – – About Pastor Ken Burge Sr. – – –
Pastor Ken Burge has earned; BA, Washington Bible College; MA & MDiv, Capital Bible Seminary; DMin, Dallas Theological Seminary; and is the Author of the F.I.R.E. Commentary Series He has been the Senior Pastor at CMBC for over 30 years. He is also apart of the Father & Son Pastoral Podcast. https://youtu.be/zMOWlEYbg5M

 

– – – Links – – –
Pastor Ken’s Church – Colmar Manor Bible Church

www.colmarmanorbiblechurch.com

 

 

Paul’s Letter to the Ephesians on F.I.R.E.: Apprehending and Applying God’s Timeless Truths by Dr. Ken J. Burge, Sr:

 

at Amazon
https://www.amazon.com/Pauls-Letter-Ephesians-F-I-R-Apprehending/dp/1636982840/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1BKU0A8XTY80D&keywords=Paul%27s+Letter+to+the+Ephesians+on+F.I.R.E.%22+by+Dr.+Ken+J.+Burge%2C+Sr.&qid=1699713702&sprefix=paul%27s+letter+to+the+ephesians+on+f.i.r.e.+by+dr.+ken+j.+burge%2C+sr.+%2Caps%2C40&sr=8-1

 

at Barns & Noble
https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/pauls-letter-to-the-ephesians-on-fire-dr-ken-j-burge/1143986244?ean=9781636982847

 

at Target
https://www.target.com/p/paul-s-letter-to-the-ephesians-on-f-i-r-e-by-ken-j-burge-paperback/-/A-89851377?ref=tgt_adv_xsf&AFID=google&CPNG=Entertainment&adgroup=247-4&lnm=d30042528f072ba8a22b19c81250437cd47a2f30330f0ed03551c4efdaf3409e

 

at Walmart
https://www.walmart.com/ip/Paul-s-Letter-to-the-Ephesians-on-F-I-R-E-Apprehending-and-Applying-God-s-Timeless-Truths-Paperback-9781636982847/3521966989?wmlspartner=wlpa&selectedSellerId=0

 

Other books by Dr. Burge Sr.
https://www.amazon.com/stores/Dr-Ken-J-Burge-Sr/author/B0CPL2D3SW?ref=ap_rdr&isDramIntegrated=true&shoppingPortalEnabled=true

 

Pastor Ken’s Foundation:
https://www.kenjburgesrfoundation.com/

Pastor Ken’s Podcast with his son who is also a pastor
On YouTube:
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLUxQMGexGCIlFzKc1LriwuFN6-vAfJbke

On Apple Podcasts:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/colmar-manor-bible-church-maryland/id1475960054?i=1000609073523

In episode 55, the pastors look at the true meaning of relationships in the Kingdom of God. How does Jesus redefine family? Why do spiritual bonds surpass biological ties? Join the pastors as they study Matthew 12:46–50, Mark 3:31–35, and Luke 8:19–21 and unpack Jesus’ teaching on spiritual kinship. Discover how faith and obedience create deeper bonds than blood and learn practical ways to prioritize your spiritual family. Let’s align our hearts with the eternal mission of the Kingdom and embrace the church as our true family.

 

This episode is entitled: “True Relationships in the Kingdom of God” which is taken from Matthew 12:46–50, Mark 3:31–35, and Luke 8:19–21.